To begin, it always helps when you bring an item to college, that all the parts and pieces are included. It doesn't do a lot of good to bring a camera to college to use for class projects when you don't bring the cable to upload the pictures to your project. One of many lessons learned...and carried.
As for the physical things, there are many. In my pack, our family van, a vast assortment of items were hauled and transplanted into this little ten-foot by fourteen-foot space called a freshman dormitory. Outside of the typical clothes and toiletries, many sentimental and personal entertainment items were packed. I brought a laptop, 5 pounds, that I can use for not only schoolwork but also communication back home and with old friends. A stereo system, about 50 pounds with the speakers, I brought to supply me with music and melodies to take my mind off the pressures of college. Along with that came my Ipod, 4.9 ounces, to take these melodies on the go. My cell phone, 3 ounces, I brought along to keep my connected with those around me and to call home whenever I may have a question or just want to talk. Lastly, a microwave and miniature refrigerator are stashed in the corner, 60-70 pounds collectively, to supply me with snacks and food when the Mensa is not open.
Among the physical things are mental and emotional baggage that I carry with me. I carry the stresses of doing homework again and making sure time is effectively spent. I carry the need to meet new people and make new friends, even though that requires putting myself out there. I carry the physical soreness from being on an athletic team. Lastly, I carry my dreams. The dreams of what I want to do with my life and how I want to spend it. The dreams of a career and a family. It's the dreams that keep us going. Through all of the things I see and feel, dreams are the most important. In the words of the transcendentalist Henry David Thoreau:
- "I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."